How to Start a Book Club

How to Start a Book Club (and Actually Keep It Going!)

If you've ever finished a book and needed to talk about it, you're not alone. A book club is the perfect way to connect with others, share thoughts, and discover new reads you might never have picked up on your own. Whether you're craving deeper conversations, want to read more consistently, or just love the idea of gathering with fellow book lovers, starting a book club is easier than you think. Here's how to get it off the ground—and keep it going.

1. Define Your Vision

Start by deciding what kind of book club you want. Ask yourself:

• Do you want to read fiction, nonfiction, or a mix?
• Should it be themed (mystery lovers, feminist reads, self-growth)?
• Will it be casual and social, or more structured and academic?

Your vision will shape everything—from who joins to what books you pick.

2. Gather Your People

A great book club doesn't need a huge crowd. Anywhere from 4 to 10 people is ideal—enough for a variety of perspectives but small enough to keep discussions manageable. Reach out to friends, coworkers, neighbors, or post in local groups or on social media. If you're going virtual, cast a wider net!

Tip: Choose members who are genuinely excited about reading and discussion—reliability is key to keeping the momentum going.

3. Set the Structure

Decide on a few ground rules early on to avoid confusion later:

• How often will you meet? (Monthly is common.)
• Where? (Rotate homes, meet at a coffee shop, or host virtually.)
• How long? (1–2 hours is usually a good window.)
• How will books be chosen? (Vote? Rotate who picks? Pre-plan a list?)

Clarity upfront keeps everyone on the same page—literally.

4. Pick Your First Book

Start with a book that’s engaging, accessible, and discussion friendly. Something under 400 pages with compelling themes or characters is a great kickoff. Avoid anything too heavy or controversial at the start—save that for when your group has found its rhythm.

If you’re looking for a magical adventure, The Book of Harmony could be a great option. It’s rich with conversation-worthy themes and just the right length for a first club pick.

Not sure where to begin? Look at recent award winners, bestsellers, or books with reading group guides. And don’t be afraid to pick something outside the mainstream—it’s your club!

5. Prep for the First Meeting

At your first gathering:

• Introduce everyone (if needed) and share why you joined the club.
• Set the tone: relaxed, curious, and respectful.
• Talk about how discussions will work—free-flowing? Guided by questions?

Consider having a few discussion prompts ready to get things going. Many books have reading guides online you can use for inspiration—or create your own!

6. Keep It Fun and Flexible

The best book clubs are about more than books, they’re about connection. Some groups bring snacks or wine, others turn their meetings into potlucks or picnics. Keep things low-pressure and welcoming. If someone doesn’t finish the book, they should still feel like they can show up.

7. Communicate Between Meetings

Create a group chat, email thread, or shared calendar to stay organized. Send reminders, share articles or author interviews, and keep the excitement going.

8. Mix Things Up

After a few meetings, ask for feedback. Try different genres, host themed nights (a cozy mystery in October? Yes, please!), or even invite guest speakers or local authors. Keep the energy fresh and the group engaged.

Final Word: Start Small, Grow Big

Don’t stress if everything doesn’t go perfectly at first. Like any group, your book club will evolve over time. What matters is creating a space where people feel inspired to read, reflect, and connect. That’s the real magic.

So pick your first book, set the date, and send the invite—your book club adventure awaits!

Ready to start your book club? Share your first meeting with us on Instagram by tagging @bookofharmony—we’d love to see your journey!